Because I’m too dazed or whatever to write a real blog…

..this boring Love Survey will do for now.

1. WHAT’S the Definition of LOVE for you?
- Love, as in true love, is the soul’s recognition of its counterpoint in another. (Taken from the movie, Wedding Crashers..hehe!)

2. WHO is YOUR FIRST LOVE?
- The one I’m with right now; He’s better known as Flip. The others were just puppy love.

3. HOW DO YOU WANT TO BE LOVED?
- I want to be loved by who I really am. I want someone to be there for me unconditionally, who is proud of me, who makes me laugh, who stays up late with me just to talk or do whatever. I want to be surprised every now and then. ;)

4. HOW DO YOU LOVE YOURSELF?
- By constantly reminding myself that I’m blessed to be who I am and to know amazing people who are my family and friends. And also laughing my heart out any chance I get.

5. WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF YOUR HEART?
- To keep me alive, and not just in a scientific way; to be able to love, care, sympathize and to give life meaning.

6. DO YOU BELIEVE IN FINDING LOVE?
- Yes, I do. I don’t see any reason why not.

7. IS THERE STANDARDS FOR LOVE?
- It varies in people I guess. But there are many kinds of love, so I think mostly, there are no standards for love.

8. SHOULD YOU GUIDE YOUR HEART?
- I don’t understand what this actually means. But if it means I should be careful with my heart, as cheesy as it may sound, I will. I mean, who wants to be heartbroken?

9. WHAT WILL YOU FOLLOW, THE VOICE OF YOUR HEART OR MIND?
- They have voices?! That I didn’t know! A silly answer for a silly, not to mention cheesy question.

10. IS KISSING WRONG FOR A BF/GF?
- NO! Unless you live decades ago, during our Lolo and Lola’s time.

11. IS VIRGINITY REALLY MATTERS?
- Ugh, wrong grammar! But I actually think it DOES matter, which is why I’m “struggling” to keep mine until my honeymoon. Hehe!

12. WHEN WILL YOU KNOW THAT YOU’RE READY FOR COURTSHIPS?
- You just “know.” It just happens, especially when the right person comes along. It’s not that big of a deal.

13. WHEN IS THE RIGHT AGE FOR MARRIAGE?
- It depends on a person’s situation. But ideally, 25-26 is a nice age to get married, especially for me since I want to have children before I turn 30. I want to be a “young mama” and to be able to see my grandchildren when I’m still alive and kicking!

14. THE PERSON YOU LOVE BUT DOESN’T LOVE YOU BACK OR THE PERSON WHO LOVES YOU BUT YOU DON’T LOVE?
- Oh please, get a life!

15. NATATAKOT KA BANG MA-IN LOVE?
- Hindi. Excited nga ako eh.

16. WHAT CAN YOU SAY TO THE PARENTS WHO ARE SO STRICT?
- Loosen up, suckers!!! hehe Your children will be more tempted and more willing to do the things you’re so not letting them because they want to get back to you for your being so strict and not giving them the full chance to experience youthful frolicks! Trust your children. After all, you’re the one who molded them into who they are.

17. WHAT MAKES THE RELATIONSHIP STRONG?
- When it is centered on God, meaning both of you don’t fool around with each other; When both need the other as badly; approval and blessing from families and friends, trust, loyalty, “friendship,” selflessness.

18. IF YOU’RE A GUY HOW WOULD YOU REACT if YOU’RE BUSTED ON A GIRL?
- I’ll know if I’m a guy and actually busted by a girl.

19. IF YOU’RE A GIRL, HOW WOULD YOU TAKE MANY SUITORS?
- Take advantage of them!! KIDDING! Seriously, I’ll decide who I really want, stick with him and explain it to the rest.

~ by Michelle on June 21, 2007.